2013 - THE YEAR OF RELATIONSHIPS
"When we understand our relationship to God, we also understand our relationship to one another."
Dallin H Oaks
As I review my 2013, I realize I've been blessed with hundreds of incredible relationships. I worked most of the year as a Relationships Expert at Corporate Alliance. I learned many worthwhile principles I was able to apply to my own relationships. For that reason, I'm going to highlight the people who stood out each month. Learn to cherish every moment and relationship in life and you'll always be happy! Also, I'm including lessons I learned experiences and quotes that struck me and motivated me to be a better person! ENJOY!!!
DECEMBER:
"I never lost faith in the truth or in who I am." - Jameis Winston
No matter what challenges life is throwing at you or those who you love and are suffering with, they'll pass. They always do. I heard some pretty bizarre things about myself all year. I guess it comes with the territory of standing up for values and making some bold moves. I learned that lesson back in high school and got a lot of flack for it, so I wasn't surprised by the storms of 2013. I set out to find the source of all the malarkey and I actually found it with the help of some incredible people. What a relief! There are no coincidences in who you meet. They're put into your life at just the right time to help achieve your righteous desires if you'll pay attention and cherish every stranger you come across. Those who set out to collude, create falsehoods, and set traps are eventually brought to justice and will pay the price for their wickedness. It's called justice, and it always wins!
If you're relying on artificially flavored Kool-Aid to know a fruit's taste but never tried the fruit's juice, you'll never know a fruit's true taste. At times we find our loyalties lie with the Kool-aid simply because we haven't tried the juice. Upon tasting the fruit for yourself, you can tell the difference. So it is with relationships. If you hear something terrible about someone, go to them directly, look them in the eyes, and ask them. "Ye shall know them by their fruits!"
"Who believes an Orange is Black? Only someone who has never seen an Orange!" - Taylor Church
"I never lost faith in the truth or in who I am." - Jameis Winston
No matter what challenges life is throwing at you or those who you love and are suffering with, they'll pass. They always do. I heard some pretty bizarre things about myself all year. I guess it comes with the territory of standing up for values and making some bold moves. I learned that lesson back in high school and got a lot of flack for it, so I wasn't surprised by the storms of 2013. I set out to find the source of all the malarkey and I actually found it with the help of some incredible people. What a relief! There are no coincidences in who you meet. They're put into your life at just the right time to help achieve your righteous desires if you'll pay attention and cherish every stranger you come across. Those who set out to collude, create falsehoods, and set traps are eventually brought to justice and will pay the price for their wickedness. It's called justice, and it always wins!
If you're relying on artificially flavored Kool-Aid to know a fruit's taste but never tried the fruit's juice, you'll never know a fruit's true taste. At times we find our loyalties lie with the Kool-aid simply because we haven't tried the juice. Upon tasting the fruit for yourself, you can tell the difference. So it is with relationships. If you hear something terrible about someone, go to them directly, look them in the eyes, and ask them. "Ye shall know them by their fruits!"
"Who believes an Orange is Black? Only someone who has never seen an Orange!" - Taylor Church
Jimmy Rex
Also one of my heroes. A fantastic speaker, Jimmy has build quite the network of social influence through his business as well as turning service opportunities into a great time. Every year he throws a charity auction and raises thousands of dollars for Sub 4 Santa, then opens his office doors for volunteers to wrap and deliver presents. Its quite the ordeal and I imagine it takes more time than anyone realizes. This year Jimmy and I grew closer from a distance. He was the first to relay to me some "concerns" he had heard about and informed me about them. His concerns were based on a misunderstanding and no fault of his own, nor the person who had told him's fault (things taken out of context). Yet, at the time I was offended that he would even entertain the ideas he had heard, but then over time, by serving each other "Just Because" we came closer. We were able to hear the quiet truths through the noise and see each other for who the other really is. He then went out of his way to let me know how he felt which isn't easy to do. That December night I felt a weight off my shoulders as I knew one more great friendship was solidified.
Sean Peterson
He came into the world a fighter, odds against him. He continues to succeed at everything he puts his mind to. Sean and I have come closer than ever through working on business ideas as well as rolling in the same social scene for the first time in our lives. Often he gets called "the older brother" because of his solid, consistent demeanor and maturity. I can't help but agree when people tell me that. He has learned and shared many secrets to the abundant life, such as "The Secret". He has put his mind to incredible goals and he's already crossing many off the list. His design skills are going to be known worldwide some day, I don't doubt it. He loves that stuff. We relate on the most important subjects, but we have such different interests, yet, we support eachother's dreams incessantly. 2013 brought my family closer, and it wed out the tares from among us. I appreciate Sean's unwavering support and sticktoitiveness. There's no shortage of favors he's done for me without expecting anything in return. "Love ya bud"
Dave Jackson
We actually connected very unconventionally. Last year we played flag football against eachother and I sensed a goodness about him, just by the way he carries himself. Later in the year, I lived with another Dave Jackson, and accidentally added this Dave on Facebook, then saw him around more often. Each time we passed, without knowing anything about him, I could sense his goodness. Finally in December, I had to opportunity to start what I hope to be a lifelong friendship as he and I worked on a little project. I think we both benefitted, but I feel like I gained more because Dave is a friend you want to have: loyal, understanding, open, and he stands for truth above all. Those consistent habits have given him a character that all can feel in his countenance. Grateful for his solid example.
Jessica Maughan
I met Jessica years ago when she was a Cougarette, I was with BYU's Basketball team, and at least once a week we would bump into eachother. She was dating a friend of mine at the time and decided to serve a mission, a move that will always be respected and sustained by me to any lady who takes it on. 2 years ago, when she came home from her mission, we met at a little dance and we went to dinner. That planted the seeds to a wonderful friendship. From dinners, to tennis, to crashing family parties, Disneyland, hiking the Y, long gospel conversations, service projects, ect, we share so many interests. Our roadtrip to Disneyland on a whim in December was absolutely one of the highlights of 2013! She brought back the magic! Such a happy person who's only option is to do good, she doesn't even consider the bad in life. I dare say Jessica is the purest person I know, and I truly mean that. Words can't describe my gratitude for her allowing me in her life and home.
John Curtis
The Mayor of Provo had an incredible 2013, and I feel like its worth noting. As members of Corporate Alliance, I gained the confidence to speak with him. He brought Provo Google Fiber, facilitated flights to San Fran and LA from Provo, and my personal favorite, HE SOLVED THE TOWING PROBLEM!!! The more I learn about this man, the more I realize what a timely leader he has been for Provo. I hope he continues his political career beyond Provo.
NOVEMBER:
Success has much to do with choosing who to surround yourself by:
Surround yourself with 4 losers
and become the 5th.
Surround yourself with 1 winner
and become the next.
"Respect yourself. Do not feel sorry for yourself. Do not dwell on unkind things others may say about you. Polish and refine whatever talents the Lord has given you. Go forward in life with a twinkle in your eye and a smile on your face, but with great and strong purpose in your heart." - Gordon B. Hinckley
Sonny and Folola Parker family:
There are some people you meet that change you from the minute you meet them. That's how it was for me when I met my friend Christian Parker's parents. Sonny is a fighter! A former NBA player and Texas A&M legend, its not his basketball pedigree that makes him a great man. Its his fatherhood to the city of Chicago and to his kids! He runs the Sonny Parker Foundation which benefits the youth of Chicago and he has lived a life of service to those around him. He and his fabulous wife allowed Christian and some of my best friends to stay over for some basketball games in Chicago. The respect the local and basketball communities have for this family was eye-opening to me. When Rahm Emanuel, mayor of Chicago, goes out of his way to give you a hug at your son's basketball game, you know you're a big deal! YET, they are so humble! Lola is such a loving caring person, and exceptional networker and mother. Her vision of what life is about is motivating to me. Its all about God's work to her. All else follows in importance. Its hard not to walk away from a weekend with the Parkers without a sincere love for each of them, and now that I know where Christian comes from, I get why he is such a knowledgable guy beyond his years. The trip was THE top highlight of the year for me.
Nicole Peterson:
Rarely do Coco and I get to spend to ton of time together on the road. On our way home from Phoenix for Thanksgiving, I was able to cherish some time with her. Coco conquered a lot in 2013, from employment promotions to the loss of a close friend, to helping her best friend through a pregnancy. Her year was extremely selfless. She's one of those people who never seek out their own honor, but love to make others feel good about themselves. Everyone who meets her, loves her. Her fierce loyalty never goes unnoticed.
Rachel Peterson:
Two years in a row, I've been able to spend Thanksgiving with Rachel and her young family. She is so incessantly positive! This year she hosted us for Thanksgiving Dinner in her home and I was able to see a side of her I rarely have seen in our 27 years together as siblings. I love seeing her as a mom. She was made for it. She is so loving and selfless. She has been there for me 100% of the time when I need it, always. Grateful for her leading example in my family.
Brady Wright
There are people you meet that you know you were friends with before this life. Brady is one of those. From the minute we met, we related on like every level. Employed by the same parent company and making a living on business relationships, we get eachother! I had the privilege of chatting with Brady at Corporate Alliance's Innovation Reunion Tour in Park City during November. Learning about someone's background and history gives you a greater perspective and respect for who they are. Brady looks everyone he meets eye to eye and loves them for who they really are, because he senses their goodness.
Kayla Cook
Kayla must be the most mature person for her age that I know. She has charisma and a solid positivity that has gotten her through life. She reminds me of my sister Rachel in ways. She's the oldest, and takes on the challenges of life with a smile. If you ever get the chance to get to know Kayla, do it! She comes from an entrepreneurial background, she has a great work ethic, lives what she preaches and doesn't allow her successes lead to pride. Her maturity will do her well as she goes through fulfilling her dreams in life. Glad to have her as a friend.
OCTOBER:
When stormy times happen, anchor yourself with milestones and goals that validate you and your character.
When the sun breaks through, your foundation will have become stronger than before.
Those momentous tender mercies increase our capabilities, purpose, and faith.
General Conference is always just what the doctor ordered. Favorite quotes:
"From the pillow wet with tears we shall be lifted heavenward by that precious promise, "I will not fail thee nor forsake thee." "Shall I falter Or shall I finish?"- President Thomas S. Monson
"Our destiny is not determined by the number of times we stumble; but by the number of times we get back up, dust ourselves off and move forward." Deiter F. Uchtdorf
"Satan's desire is to alter revealed truth and deceive. " - L. Tom Perry
"The vicissitudes of life help us fashion an eternal relationship with God and engrave his image in our countenance." - T. Dyches
Michelle Davis:
To reiterate, every person comes into your life for a reason. I first saw Michelle at a Root Beer Halloween party for Luke's (see below) birthday. Obviously, she's gorgeous. Quickly, though, I began to learn there's a whole lot more under that pretty skin. She has conquered life and has so much life experience for her young age. Her laugh is contagious and you can't help but smile and have a good time when you're around her. She has some amazing talents! The Lord uses her often to accomplish his purposes when people misunderstand each other. A born leader, pacifist, and mediator. I'm extremely grateful for her timely friendship in my life. I can't say enough about her loyalty and sensitivity.
Luke Salisbury:
Individuality! In life you meet people who create their own trail to success without caring how the rest of the world does it. Luke is king at that! He's loved by all who get to know him, he lives his dreams, travels the world, is headed to Sochi, works hard... just a great human being. Lucky to have met Luke.
Alex Hone:
In March I wrote a blog post that was felt by many, including Alex. It was worth the effort if only for the friendship that has been borne with Alex. He's a business man from Ogden, and lives to serve the Lord. He has a foundation that takes him to Fiji yearly to serve the people there, but you'd never know it. He doesn't want the credit. His family business depends on his young leadership skill for success, and business is booming! On top of everything, he's my Jazz game teammate. The more I get to know him, the more I'm convinced he's going to be among the most successful people the state of Utah ever sees.
SEPTEMBER:
When the Root is Deep----- There is no Reason to Fear the Wind -
To the haters, the liars, the feeble, the fakes, the quitters... your diabolical shafts in the whirlwind are massless, baseless, and show your heartlessness. You've noticed nothing gets me down? I'm not scared of you, but you fear my success. My roots are DEEP. Your words...? Ha... they're just wind lifting my wings.
"When you're all alone and your back's against the wall and its all on you; that's when your best self comes out!" - Justin Englebright
Justin Englebright
A lifelong hero asked to go to lunch in September. Justin build an absolute dynasty in the Highland/Alpine area for State Farm. His successes led State Farm to begging him to take on a leadership role. All year we had plenty of dialogue with his unwavering support. He later invited me to his home for dinner with his wonderful family. He is so blessed by his strict obedience to the gospel they believe in and live faithfully. He is the definition of how a priesthood leader should live their lives. His wife is the sweetest lady in the world and such a great inspiration for good.
Thomas Wright
I learned more from Bishop Wright as his Executive Secretary than any other Bishop I've ever had. His support last year was unsurpassed by anyone. Some of the best memories, though, were moments in his home or up in the hills talking about life. I wouldn't be who I am without his friendship and love. Glad I get to see him more often now, and I'll cherish every moment he's around to gain from his example of how to live life.
Si'i Mafi
I've had many roommates over the years from different cultures but none have been like Si'i. I've learned so much about the good people of Hawaii and Tonga. They live life based on principles and they don't shake. I love that about him. He works hard and knows where he is from, yet he's not afraid to take on new challenges. That said, he knows exactly what he wants out of life and he is on his way to getting it. Love this big hearted guy, and I'm glad he's teaching me how to fight and box. Quite a few years overdue.
Josh Larson
Its safe to say I live with a bunch of superstars. Josh might be the greatest of all of them. A vet, entrepreneur and writer for the LDS Church's magazine "The Ensign", Josh and I have built a great friendship. I love our talks about gospel and life topics. His example makes me better and the way he just goes through life doing what he's supposed to do inspires me. Grateful the Lord put me in the same condo to meet this giant.
AUGUST:
“The liar's punishment is, not in the least that he is not believed, but that he cannot believe anyone else.” #trust ― George Bernard Shaw
Some confuse effort with difficulty. You'll know them by the way they pull the victim card every day of their lives. Don't be that; rather push through the "hard times" and you'll find an enjoyable life.
When a dog poops inside does it hide in shame from its master or does it show off its work excitedly?
By the same token: When someone you've wronged walks into the room and you shrink, hide your face, and avoid eye contact; you've proven a guilty conscience to be correct, proven a low level of character, a shaky self-esteem, and your words lose all credibility, especially in regard to he whom was wronged.
You can love the dog, just don't trust the poop.
Minor details can make a huge difference. A field of grass is just a field of grass, but organize it with lines and it becomes something magical!
Adam Thomas:
Ever since we were roommates years ago Adam and I have been friends. He just loves people. All who know him well know him as someone who would truly do anything for his friends. He has created a successful life for himself by building lasting friendships with all those around him. A true example to me of unconditional love, I'm grateful for his receptivity. He will always be a friend to me, no matter what happens.
Jace Crawford:
Jace and I have been friends since birth (literally born in the same hospital bed only 6 days apart). We've lived together many times and I've seen him develop as a human our entire lives. He had a dream to go to grad school and he made it happen. He didn't let anything get in the way of that, including me! I'm going to miss him when he moves away but we'll always be in touch. We always pick up where we leave off.
Jeremy Lebaron:
A few years ago, a distant friend was down and out. I invited him to live with me for free for a month until he got his feet under him. He soon moved in permanently! Then life sent him across the country to work for Microsoft and he eventually made his way back to Utah. A second time we lived under the same roof, this time with an even greater respect for each other. He's probably the longest winded friend I have, but seeing what he has made out of his life inspires me. Where much is given much is required and he is right on pace in my mind.
JULY:
If you're in the business of burning bridges, you're in for a rude awakening when you need to cross life's crevasses. Instead, if someone offends you, try to find a way to serve them. The results will amaze you! During July I gained a closer relationship with an apostle and tickets to Stadium of Fire through people
Jordan Moss:
I had to pleasure of building a friendship with a spiritual giant, beginning on Tinder of all things. It was worth it just for the chance to meet Jordan. We have so much we relate to, but the greatest thing is her commitment to building a God-fearing home. I love the fight that she shows in the battles of life she faces. Long drives and Spotify jam sessions highlight a wonderful friendship that was forged. She is an incredible woman!
L. Tom Perry (and Co):
Rarely do people get a personal experience with an apostle. I got that in my mission and gained a true testimony of the Twelve Apostles of Christ's living church today. That was strengthened in June. I have family connections to L. Tom Perry that proved valuable as I followed his guidance. The truth always comes out and you can find it when you are as transparent as possible. There are many people who you never know you'll need to draw on for strength when you meet them, but they always rise to the surface if you treat every single one of your relationships with respect. When you play games with family, or hold grudges against people for whatever reason, you paint yourself into a corner and cannot win at life, while the rest of the world is enjoying the rest of the mansion. My experiences in July taught me how to be a wise painter.
Also one of my heroes. A fantastic speaker, Jimmy has build quite the network of social influence through his business as well as turning service opportunities into a great time. Every year he throws a charity auction and raises thousands of dollars for Sub 4 Santa, then opens his office doors for volunteers to wrap and deliver presents. Its quite the ordeal and I imagine it takes more time than anyone realizes. This year Jimmy and I grew closer from a distance. He was the first to relay to me some "concerns" he had heard about and informed me about them. His concerns were based on a misunderstanding and no fault of his own, nor the person who had told him's fault (things taken out of context). Yet, at the time I was offended that he would even entertain the ideas he had heard, but then over time, by serving each other "Just Because" we came closer. We were able to hear the quiet truths through the noise and see each other for who the other really is. He then went out of his way to let me know how he felt which isn't easy to do. That December night I felt a weight off my shoulders as I knew one more great friendship was solidified.
Sean Peterson
He came into the world a fighter, odds against him. He continues to succeed at everything he puts his mind to. Sean and I have come closer than ever through working on business ideas as well as rolling in the same social scene for the first time in our lives. Often he gets called "the older brother" because of his solid, consistent demeanor and maturity. I can't help but agree when people tell me that. He has learned and shared many secrets to the abundant life, such as "The Secret". He has put his mind to incredible goals and he's already crossing many off the list. His design skills are going to be known worldwide some day, I don't doubt it. He loves that stuff. We relate on the most important subjects, but we have such different interests, yet, we support eachother's dreams incessantly. 2013 brought my family closer, and it wed out the tares from among us. I appreciate Sean's unwavering support and sticktoitiveness. There's no shortage of favors he's done for me without expecting anything in return. "Love ya bud"
Dave Jackson
We actually connected very unconventionally. Last year we played flag football against eachother and I sensed a goodness about him, just by the way he carries himself. Later in the year, I lived with another Dave Jackson, and accidentally added this Dave on Facebook, then saw him around more often. Each time we passed, without knowing anything about him, I could sense his goodness. Finally in December, I had to opportunity to start what I hope to be a lifelong friendship as he and I worked on a little project. I think we both benefitted, but I feel like I gained more because Dave is a friend you want to have: loyal, understanding, open, and he stands for truth above all. Those consistent habits have given him a character that all can feel in his countenance. Grateful for his solid example.
Jessica Maughan
I met Jessica years ago when she was a Cougarette, I was with BYU's Basketball team, and at least once a week we would bump into eachother. She was dating a friend of mine at the time and decided to serve a mission, a move that will always be respected and sustained by me to any lady who takes it on. 2 years ago, when she came home from her mission, we met at a little dance and we went to dinner. That planted the seeds to a wonderful friendship. From dinners, to tennis, to crashing family parties, Disneyland, hiking the Y, long gospel conversations, service projects, ect, we share so many interests. Our roadtrip to Disneyland on a whim in December was absolutely one of the highlights of 2013! She brought back the magic! Such a happy person who's only option is to do good, she doesn't even consider the bad in life. I dare say Jessica is the purest person I know, and I truly mean that. Words can't describe my gratitude for her allowing me in her life and home.
John Curtis
The Mayor of Provo had an incredible 2013, and I feel like its worth noting. As members of Corporate Alliance, I gained the confidence to speak with him. He brought Provo Google Fiber, facilitated flights to San Fran and LA from Provo, and my personal favorite, HE SOLVED THE TOWING PROBLEM!!! The more I learn about this man, the more I realize what a timely leader he has been for Provo. I hope he continues his political career beyond Provo.
NOVEMBER:
Success has much to do with choosing who to surround yourself by:
Surround yourself with 4 losers
and become the 5th.
Surround yourself with 1 winner
and become the next.
"Respect yourself. Do not feel sorry for yourself. Do not dwell on unkind things others may say about you. Polish and refine whatever talents the Lord has given you. Go forward in life with a twinkle in your eye and a smile on your face, but with great and strong purpose in your heart." - Gordon B. Hinckley
Sonny and Folola Parker family:
Nicole Peterson:
Rarely do Coco and I get to spend to ton of time together on the road. On our way home from Phoenix for Thanksgiving, I was able to cherish some time with her. Coco conquered a lot in 2013, from employment promotions to the loss of a close friend, to helping her best friend through a pregnancy. Her year was extremely selfless. She's one of those people who never seek out their own honor, but love to make others feel good about themselves. Everyone who meets her, loves her. Her fierce loyalty never goes unnoticed.
Rachel Peterson:
Two years in a row, I've been able to spend Thanksgiving with Rachel and her young family. She is so incessantly positive! This year she hosted us for Thanksgiving Dinner in her home and I was able to see a side of her I rarely have seen in our 27 years together as siblings. I love seeing her as a mom. She was made for it. She is so loving and selfless. She has been there for me 100% of the time when I need it, always. Grateful for her leading example in my family.
Brady Wright
There are people you meet that you know you were friends with before this life. Brady is one of those. From the minute we met, we related on like every level. Employed by the same parent company and making a living on business relationships, we get eachother! I had the privilege of chatting with Brady at Corporate Alliance's Innovation Reunion Tour in Park City during November. Learning about someone's background and history gives you a greater perspective and respect for who they are. Brady looks everyone he meets eye to eye and loves them for who they really are, because he senses their goodness.
Kayla Cook
Kayla must be the most mature person for her age that I know. She has charisma and a solid positivity that has gotten her through life. She reminds me of my sister Rachel in ways. She's the oldest, and takes on the challenges of life with a smile. If you ever get the chance to get to know Kayla, do it! She comes from an entrepreneurial background, she has a great work ethic, lives what she preaches and doesn't allow her successes lead to pride. Her maturity will do her well as she goes through fulfilling her dreams in life. Glad to have her as a friend.
OCTOBER:
When stormy times happen, anchor yourself with milestones and goals that validate you and your character.
When the sun breaks through, your foundation will have become stronger than before.
Those momentous tender mercies increase our capabilities, purpose, and faith.
General Conference is always just what the doctor ordered. Favorite quotes:
"From the pillow wet with tears we shall be lifted heavenward by that precious promise, "I will not fail thee nor forsake thee." "Shall I falter Or shall I finish?"- President Thomas S. Monson
"Our destiny is not determined by the number of times we stumble; but by the number of times we get back up, dust ourselves off and move forward." Deiter F. Uchtdorf
"Satan's desire is to alter revealed truth and deceive. " - L. Tom Perry
"The vicissitudes of life help us fashion an eternal relationship with God and engrave his image in our countenance." - T. Dyches
Michelle Davis:
To reiterate, every person comes into your life for a reason. I first saw Michelle at a Root Beer Halloween party for Luke's (see below) birthday. Obviously, she's gorgeous. Quickly, though, I began to learn there's a whole lot more under that pretty skin. She has conquered life and has so much life experience for her young age. Her laugh is contagious and you can't help but smile and have a good time when you're around her. She has some amazing talents! The Lord uses her often to accomplish his purposes when people misunderstand each other. A born leader, pacifist, and mediator. I'm extremely grateful for her timely friendship in my life. I can't say enough about her loyalty and sensitivity.
Luke Salisbury:
Individuality! In life you meet people who create their own trail to success without caring how the rest of the world does it. Luke is king at that! He's loved by all who get to know him, he lives his dreams, travels the world, is headed to Sochi, works hard... just a great human being. Lucky to have met Luke.
Alex Hone:
In March I wrote a blog post that was felt by many, including Alex. It was worth the effort if only for the friendship that has been borne with Alex. He's a business man from Ogden, and lives to serve the Lord. He has a foundation that takes him to Fiji yearly to serve the people there, but you'd never know it. He doesn't want the credit. His family business depends on his young leadership skill for success, and business is booming! On top of everything, he's my Jazz game teammate. The more I get to know him, the more I'm convinced he's going to be among the most successful people the state of Utah ever sees.
SEPTEMBER:
When the Root is Deep----- There is no Reason to Fear the Wind -
To the haters, the liars, the feeble, the fakes, the quitters... your diabolical shafts in the whirlwind are massless, baseless, and show your heartlessness. You've noticed nothing gets me down? I'm not scared of you, but you fear my success. My roots are DEEP. Your words...? Ha... they're just wind lifting my wings.
"When you're all alone and your back's against the wall and its all on you; that's when your best self comes out!" - Justin Englebright
Justin Englebright
A lifelong hero asked to go to lunch in September. Justin build an absolute dynasty in the Highland/Alpine area for State Farm. His successes led State Farm to begging him to take on a leadership role. All year we had plenty of dialogue with his unwavering support. He later invited me to his home for dinner with his wonderful family. He is so blessed by his strict obedience to the gospel they believe in and live faithfully. He is the definition of how a priesthood leader should live their lives. His wife is the sweetest lady in the world and such a great inspiration for good.
Thomas Wright
I learned more from Bishop Wright as his Executive Secretary than any other Bishop I've ever had. His support last year was unsurpassed by anyone. Some of the best memories, though, were moments in his home or up in the hills talking about life. I wouldn't be who I am without his friendship and love. Glad I get to see him more often now, and I'll cherish every moment he's around to gain from his example of how to live life.
Si'i Mafi
I've had many roommates over the years from different cultures but none have been like Si'i. I've learned so much about the good people of Hawaii and Tonga. They live life based on principles and they don't shake. I love that about him. He works hard and knows where he is from, yet he's not afraid to take on new challenges. That said, he knows exactly what he wants out of life and he is on his way to getting it. Love this big hearted guy, and I'm glad he's teaching me how to fight and box. Quite a few years overdue.
Josh Larson
Its safe to say I live with a bunch of superstars. Josh might be the greatest of all of them. A vet, entrepreneur and writer for the LDS Church's magazine "The Ensign", Josh and I have built a great friendship. I love our talks about gospel and life topics. His example makes me better and the way he just goes through life doing what he's supposed to do inspires me. Grateful the Lord put me in the same condo to meet this giant.
AUGUST:
“The liar's punishment is, not in the least that he is not believed, but that he cannot believe anyone else.” #trust ― George Bernard Shaw
Some confuse effort with difficulty. You'll know them by the way they pull the victim card every day of their lives. Don't be that; rather push through the "hard times" and you'll find an enjoyable life.
When a dog poops inside does it hide in shame from its master or does it show off its work excitedly?
By the same token: When someone you've wronged walks into the room and you shrink, hide your face, and avoid eye contact; you've proven a guilty conscience to be correct, proven a low level of character, a shaky self-esteem, and your words lose all credibility, especially in regard to he whom was wronged.
You can love the dog, just don't trust the poop.
Minor details can make a huge difference. A field of grass is just a field of grass, but organize it with lines and it becomes something magical!
Adam Thomas:
Ever since we were roommates years ago Adam and I have been friends. He just loves people. All who know him well know him as someone who would truly do anything for his friends. He has created a successful life for himself by building lasting friendships with all those around him. A true example to me of unconditional love, I'm grateful for his receptivity. He will always be a friend to me, no matter what happens.
Jace Crawford:
Jace and I have been friends since birth (literally born in the same hospital bed only 6 days apart). We've lived together many times and I've seen him develop as a human our entire lives. He had a dream to go to grad school and he made it happen. He didn't let anything get in the way of that, including me! I'm going to miss him when he moves away but we'll always be in touch. We always pick up where we leave off.
Jeremy Lebaron:A few years ago, a distant friend was down and out. I invited him to live with me for free for a month until he got his feet under him. He soon moved in permanently! Then life sent him across the country to work for Microsoft and he eventually made his way back to Utah. A second time we lived under the same roof, this time with an even greater respect for each other. He's probably the longest winded friend I have, but seeing what he has made out of his life inspires me. Where much is given much is required and he is right on pace in my mind.
JULY:
"I destroy my enemies when I make them my friends" - Abe Lincoln
Jordan Moss:
I had to pleasure of building a friendship with a spiritual giant, beginning on Tinder of all things. It was worth it just for the chance to meet Jordan. We have so much we relate to, but the greatest thing is her commitment to building a God-fearing home. I love the fight that she shows in the battles of life she faces. Long drives and Spotify jam sessions highlight a wonderful friendship that was forged. She is an incredible woman!
L. Tom Perry (and Co):
Rarely do people get a personal experience with an apostle. I got that in my mission and gained a true testimony of the Twelve Apostles of Christ's living church today. That was strengthened in June. I have family connections to L. Tom Perry that proved valuable as I followed his guidance. The truth always comes out and you can find it when you are as transparent as possible. There are many people who you never know you'll need to draw on for strength when you meet them, but they always rise to the surface if you treat every single one of your relationships with respect. When you play games with family, or hold grudges against people for whatever reason, you paint yourself into a corner and cannot win at life, while the rest of the world is enjoying the rest of the mansion. My experiences in July taught me how to be a wise painter.
JUNE:
If you're not making someone else's life better, then you're wasting your time.
Its not prideful to expect blessings you've earned through obedience, its the law. If you're humble enough to obey, then you merit the things you've earned. In time and after a couple of proving bumps in the road, the blessings always come.
Chris O'Neill:
Relationship arrogance. I was guilty of it when I first met Chris years ago. He and I are so much alike in the way we compete on the basketball court and football field that he was actually on the short list of people I disliked. To be honest I was intimidated and didn't like him because of my own insecurity. When I came back to Provo with an open mind, he was one of the first to befriend me. He invited me to play in the Spokane Hoopfest 3 on 3 in June. That car ride is one of my treasured moments of the year. I learned about a great man, who hasn't had it easy, but he has made an incredible life for himself. The more I get to know him, the more I realize that I love this cat!
Patton Pettijohn:
With a name like that, he has to live up to a superhero-like status. Patton and I have come closer than ever this year as we've tried to capitalize commonalities we have. Admittedly, we haven't always seen eye to eye. However, deep discussions have revealed he is more of a brother to me than I thought years ago when I met him. That puts the fault on me for assuming the worst. He's as good of a guy as I've met and has stood up for me in times when I didn't know he had my back. One of those guys I truly would want in my foxhole, he's crafty, clever, and self dependent. I look forward to numerous activities in the future with Provo's best bachelor.
Thomas Saunders:
Loyal integrity. Those are the 2 words that describe Thomas best. He has a good sense of what is right and what is wrong and does what's right because its right. Hard to find someone who is so good just on the principle of doing good. Incredibly responsible and dedicated, his drive gets him what he wants, even if it means running through a brick wall. Regardless of times I've wronged him, he has stood firm as my friend and I cherish that more than I let him realize.
Weston Gleave:
Another one of those friends who always has your back no matter the down and distance. Now living together for the third time, he has been there for the biggest events in my life. A hard worker and incessantly happy human, I'm grateful to call Weston a friend. I've seen the way he gives, and gives, and gives, and gives, while expecting nothing in return. The interesting thing is to watch how much he receives by giving. Talented in many ways, Weston works hard to provide for his comfortable lifestyle. Very much a family person, he cares so much for his brothers and sisters and it shows in the way he talks with them. He's one of the easiest people to get along with I've ever met, yet he doesn't settle for mediocrity. He'll go far.
MAY:
"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you." - Dale Carnegie
I think May was the best month of the year. On a complete whim, 45 strangers organized a trip to Lake Powell where we became friends for life. Those relationships will last forever. Every one of Team Powell should be listed here but that would take forever. Supportive friends continued to pour in. I saw miracles happen and cities of influence grow. Mentally, I was able to rid myself of dragons of the past and jet forward 90 miles an hour on a Jetski with some of the best friends in the world.
Making difficult choices is what life is all about, so we shouldn't be afraid to act.
In life we hope for happiness, but we have to take a leap of faith to get it. That's what walking on water is. If you sink, God will be there to carry you back to the boat. If you walk, you made the right choice.
So if a choice has caused you to sink in the past, its probably not your best path to take or repeat... but if you've stayed steady and faithful above the water, you should keep walking... and enjoy that experience to its fullest!
Christie Cerenzie:
Co-Founder of the Provo Adventure Club, she an incredible person and such an amazing friend. No matter what is going on in her life, she sets out to serve others and puts her own problems behind her. I'd say she's a female Walt Disney in ways. Her adventurous spirit has led her across the globe looking for opportunities to help. Fun-loving, loyal, and always inclusive no matter the circumstance, our friendship during the summer months is one I'll always look back on with smiles and gratitude. I look forward to seeing her continue to brighten the lives of those around her.
Zander Jensen:
One of the most infectious personalities I've ever met. Most are initially intimidated when they meet Zander, as was I 4 years ago, because they realize they just can't compete with the presence he commands. Fearlessly himself, he is able to befriend anyone because he is truly unbiased. As one who has conquered his own set of challenges, his open and creative mind allows him to embrace anyone who will allow themselves to feel his warm heart. Rare are his enemies regardless of opinion. All of the above takes a special human being and certainly there's only one Zander, aka Thor. He has been there for me this entire year and I can't thank him enough for it.
Zack Oates:
Separated at birth, he is my older twin brother I never had. The kind of guy who will serve anyone and wrap his arms around anyone, he has an innate sense of people's needs and he sets out to serve them, often anonymously. His faith drives his goodness, and what you see isn't too good to be true; he's REALLY that good of a human being. Hot tub club, Lake Powell, and hundreds of other memories will make 2013 unforgettable.
Brian Cameron:
I never would have met Brian had I not come back to Provo. My life would have been missing a great friend and one of the greatest examples of a man that I've ever known. Brian, a fellow serial-entrepreneur, played basketball at SUU, graduated with his Masters in Business Management and tried to hire me to help him build his company B&C Entertainment. This guy is a creative genius, a spiritual giant, and he'll keep you laughing all day. Fun, fun friend, and I'm grateful our paths have crossed in April as we planned Team Powell and have recrossed as fellow VP's in taking XOJO across Earth.
TJ Nelson:
I met Tarl knocking doors 3 and a half years ago. That was before he was SUU's student body president and one of the most sought after marketers to ever graduate from SUU. He's got a great business mind and I look forward to working with him in the future as our ideas take over the world!
Kinley and Bridget Peterson:
The best parents in the world! In May my mom and dad celebrated year 32 of their marriage. I'm going to go out on a whim and say that is no easy task! On top of that, they opened yet another business, a Carls Jr, in Salina, UT. This is a team effort! To add to the whole shebang, my parents were called to serve a mission for the LDS Church in the Anti-Addiction Program and help guide those stuggling with addiction on their road to recovery. I cannot imagine 2 people I'd rather call Mom and Dad than these two. I'm so grateful to them for their consistent examples of service to the Lord and those around them. As Boyd K. Packer says: "There are few things more powerful than the faithful prayers of a righteous mother." I'm a grateful recipient of those powerful prayers to the Lord.
APRIL:
"Every opportunity has its root in a relationship" - Jeff Rust
In every person you meet there is a blessing to be earned or a lesson to be learned. If you don't value each person you cross paths with, you're throwing away opportunities to succeed. In April I flew to Hawaii! Balm for the human soul. That was the highlight of April and the awesome ability to within 24 hours see my mission president in Salt Lake, drive to Vegas, hop on a plane, listen to prophets speak, land in paradise to be picked up by one of the best friends in the world and go straight to the beach to listen to more General Conference is a testament to what a wonderful world we live in. I almost stayed out there! I also considered moving home to Annabella for a while with my parents to clear my head and simplify my life. Luckily I had a friend back home who talked some sense into me and gave me the perfect opportunity of working under his supervision at Corporate Alliance, truly a life altering experience.
Brian Varley:
The month did begin on a somber note. My cousin Brian Varley died early on in the month. Brian was one of my favorite people to talk to because of his contagious laugh. I had the honor of being one of his pall bearers. Fun memories flooded my mind as he was remembered. I don't believe Brian had any enemies. I can't imagine anyone disliking someone so kind and loving as him. His example lives on through those he affected in his short 26 years. Love you Brian!!!
Elder Victor Asconavieta & family:
My ultra inspired mission president and currently an Area Seventy in Brazil for the LDS Church. Every April, he visits Utah and meets up with his missionaries. He's taught many lessons over the years but none has affected me like the advice to marry into a family with a priesthood leader. I'll continue to hold out for that. A true friend and hero to me, he looks deep into the eyes of those he knows as well, as well as strangers, and sees them as God sees them, with infinite potential. His wife is an inspiration to me and the perfect example of what a beautiful wife can be inside and out. Both incredible teachers, leaders, and friends. "Expect miracles!"
Jeff and Lakota Sorensen:
Like a brother. Jeff allowed me to live with him for a week in Hawaii while I honestly explored job options out there. We went spear fishing, snorkeling, knocking, saw the daily sunsets, watched General Conference (on the beach...) resumed our workout schedule we used to do (only this time on the beach). Jeff is another one of friends who time, distance and events don't play into the friendship. He loves everyone and his loving ways are being well received in Hawaii, where he's killing it selling solar. Grateful for a friend who refuses to be mediocre or let those around him fail.
Chad Ahearn:
One of the most inspired teachers I've ever had! When I came back to Provo, I found refuge by going to Institute, where Chad gifted all in attendance with his teaching abilities. A mega successful individual, hard worker, and someone I can relate to on many levels, I really look up to this guy. Sadly, he is a Mercedes fan and gets stuck in the snow without Audi Quattro technology but he doesn't let his one weakness get in the way of conquering the world. I appreciate his closeness to the spirit in those times as he followed promptings and taught with power that touched my heart. He's a hero of mine.
Logan Wilkes:
I received a random phone call from an old friend one day while sitting in my car. It was from Logan, President of Corporate Alliance of Utah Valley. He essentially offered me a job as a relationships consultant right over the phone. His call was very timely. Over the next few months I was given the opportunity to learn from some of the best relationship makers on Earth. The principles taught at Corporate Alliance work. Learn, Serve, Grow. Logan gave me the chance to focus on other people's needs and taught me how to sell on a relationship basis. For the next 7 months I gained timeless friendships and a million experiences I'll never forget, rubbing shoulders with some of the best business minds in the state. Logan, the same friend who gave me cuff links 4 years ago at church and told me to keep them, continues to find subtle ways to serve others without expecting things in return, but Just Because. I'm so grateful for this old friendship forged years ago. He's moving onto bigger things now and I wish him the best of luck!
Mike Scott:
Fate had it that Mike and I landed in San Antonio as strangers 5 years ago. I was a recently returned missionary, and he was a lost kid looking for God. He found it there and I've watched him grow into the man God has meant for him to be ever since. In April I was honored to watch his marriage and sealing in the ever-so-meaningful Draper Temple.
"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you." - Dale Carnegie
I think May was the best month of the year. On a complete whim, 45 strangers organized a trip to Lake Powell where we became friends for life. Those relationships will last forever. Every one of Team Powell should be listed here but that would take forever. Supportive friends continued to pour in. I saw miracles happen and cities of influence grow. Mentally, I was able to rid myself of dragons of the past and jet forward 90 miles an hour on a Jetski with some of the best friends in the world.
Making difficult choices is what life is all about, so we shouldn't be afraid to act.
In life we hope for happiness, but we have to take a leap of faith to get it. That's what walking on water is. If you sink, God will be there to carry you back to the boat. If you walk, you made the right choice.
So if a choice has caused you to sink in the past, its probably not your best path to take or repeat... but if you've stayed steady and faithful above the water, you should keep walking... and enjoy that experience to its fullest!
Christie Cerenzie:
Co-Founder of the Provo Adventure Club, she an incredible person and such an amazing friend. No matter what is going on in her life, she sets out to serve others and puts her own problems behind her. I'd say she's a female Walt Disney in ways. Her adventurous spirit has led her across the globe looking for opportunities to help. Fun-loving, loyal, and always inclusive no matter the circumstance, our friendship during the summer months is one I'll always look back on with smiles and gratitude. I look forward to seeing her continue to brighten the lives of those around her.
Zander Jensen:
One of the most infectious personalities I've ever met. Most are initially intimidated when they meet Zander, as was I 4 years ago, because they realize they just can't compete with the presence he commands. Fearlessly himself, he is able to befriend anyone because he is truly unbiased. As one who has conquered his own set of challenges, his open and creative mind allows him to embrace anyone who will allow themselves to feel his warm heart. Rare are his enemies regardless of opinion. All of the above takes a special human being and certainly there's only one Zander, aka Thor. He has been there for me this entire year and I can't thank him enough for it.
Zack Oates:
Separated at birth, he is my older twin brother I never had. The kind of guy who will serve anyone and wrap his arms around anyone, he has an innate sense of people's needs and he sets out to serve them, often anonymously. His faith drives his goodness, and what you see isn't too good to be true; he's REALLY that good of a human being. Hot tub club, Lake Powell, and hundreds of other memories will make 2013 unforgettable.
Brian Cameron:I never would have met Brian had I not come back to Provo. My life would have been missing a great friend and one of the greatest examples of a man that I've ever known. Brian, a fellow serial-entrepreneur, played basketball at SUU, graduated with his Masters in Business Management and tried to hire me to help him build his company B&C Entertainment. This guy is a creative genius, a spiritual giant, and he'll keep you laughing all day. Fun, fun friend, and I'm grateful our paths have crossed in April as we planned Team Powell and have recrossed as fellow VP's in taking XOJO across Earth.
TJ Nelson:
Kinley and Bridget Peterson:
The best parents in the world! In May my mom and dad celebrated year 32 of their marriage. I'm going to go out on a whim and say that is no easy task! On top of that, they opened yet another business, a Carls Jr, in Salina, UT. This is a team effort! To add to the whole shebang, my parents were called to serve a mission for the LDS Church in the Anti-Addiction Program and help guide those stuggling with addiction on their road to recovery. I cannot imagine 2 people I'd rather call Mom and Dad than these two. I'm so grateful to them for their consistent examples of service to the Lord and those around them. As Boyd K. Packer says: "There are few things more powerful than the faithful prayers of a righteous mother." I'm a grateful recipient of those powerful prayers to the Lord.
APRIL:
"Every opportunity has its root in a relationship" - Jeff Rust
In every person you meet there is a blessing to be earned or a lesson to be learned. If you don't value each person you cross paths with, you're throwing away opportunities to succeed. In April I flew to Hawaii! Balm for the human soul. That was the highlight of April and the awesome ability to within 24 hours see my mission president in Salt Lake, drive to Vegas, hop on a plane, listen to prophets speak, land in paradise to be picked up by one of the best friends in the world and go straight to the beach to listen to more General Conference is a testament to what a wonderful world we live in. I almost stayed out there! I also considered moving home to Annabella for a while with my parents to clear my head and simplify my life. Luckily I had a friend back home who talked some sense into me and gave me the perfect opportunity of working under his supervision at Corporate Alliance, truly a life altering experience.
Brian Varley:
The month did begin on a somber note. My cousin Brian Varley died early on in the month. Brian was one of my favorite people to talk to because of his contagious laugh. I had the honor of being one of his pall bearers. Fun memories flooded my mind as he was remembered. I don't believe Brian had any enemies. I can't imagine anyone disliking someone so kind and loving as him. His example lives on through those he affected in his short 26 years. Love you Brian!!!
Elder Victor Asconavieta & family:
My ultra inspired mission president and currently an Area Seventy in Brazil for the LDS Church. Every April, he visits Utah and meets up with his missionaries. He's taught many lessons over the years but none has affected me like the advice to marry into a family with a priesthood leader. I'll continue to hold out for that. A true friend and hero to me, he looks deep into the eyes of those he knows as well, as well as strangers, and sees them as God sees them, with infinite potential. His wife is an inspiration to me and the perfect example of what a beautiful wife can be inside and out. Both incredible teachers, leaders, and friends. "Expect miracles!"
Jeff and Lakota Sorensen:
Like a brother. Jeff allowed me to live with him for a week in Hawaii while I honestly explored job options out there. We went spear fishing, snorkeling, knocking, saw the daily sunsets, watched General Conference (on the beach...) resumed our workout schedule we used to do (only this time on the beach). Jeff is another one of friends who time, distance and events don't play into the friendship. He loves everyone and his loving ways are being well received in Hawaii, where he's killing it selling solar. Grateful for a friend who refuses to be mediocre or let those around him fail.
Chad Ahearn:
One of the most inspired teachers I've ever had! When I came back to Provo, I found refuge by going to Institute, where Chad gifted all in attendance with his teaching abilities. A mega successful individual, hard worker, and someone I can relate to on many levels, I really look up to this guy. Sadly, he is a Mercedes fan and gets stuck in the snow without Audi Quattro technology but he doesn't let his one weakness get in the way of conquering the world. I appreciate his closeness to the spirit in those times as he followed promptings and taught with power that touched my heart. He's a hero of mine.
Logan Wilkes:
I received a random phone call from an old friend one day while sitting in my car. It was from Logan, President of Corporate Alliance of Utah Valley. He essentially offered me a job as a relationships consultant right over the phone. His call was very timely. Over the next few months I was given the opportunity to learn from some of the best relationship makers on Earth. The principles taught at Corporate Alliance work. Learn, Serve, Grow. Logan gave me the chance to focus on other people's needs and taught me how to sell on a relationship basis. For the next 7 months I gained timeless friendships and a million experiences I'll never forget, rubbing shoulders with some of the best business minds in the state. Logan, the same friend who gave me cuff links 4 years ago at church and told me to keep them, continues to find subtle ways to serve others without expecting things in return, but Just Because. I'm so grateful for this old friendship forged years ago. He's moving onto bigger things now and I wish him the best of luck!
Mike Scott:Fate had it that Mike and I landed in San Antonio as strangers 5 years ago. I was a recently returned missionary, and he was a lost kid looking for God. He found it there and I've watched him grow into the man God has meant for him to be ever since. In April I was honored to watch his marriage and sealing in the ever-so-meaningful Draper Temple.
MARCH:
Often we get answers to our prayers after a trial of our faith. When we dive in by trusting the Lord with our whole hearts, we're blessed immensely, even if we get the answer we didn't expect or want some time later. I'm grateful today for the simplicity of the true gospel of Jesus Christ. Any variance from it can cause generations of harm, and I'm glad I have been blessed with a family and friends who understand my commitment to building God's kingdom on Earth; which can't be accomplished alone. March was memorable in the way I had to accept change. Changed cities, apartments, roommates, and added an incredible amount of friends while strengthening old relationships. I saw support from a million angles, I should say angels as well. I felt spiritually held up on a level I have never felt before. I felt inspired to conquer the world. I felt as if a runner who had been running for a year with ankle weights on, with weights finally removed. Strangely joyous, my perspective of the sky was no more inhibited by a pavilion of uncertainty overhead. Diving into pools like institute, attending the temple and hopping back into the boat we call Provo, I was able to immediately forge strong relationships with loving, open hearts, regardless of the whirlwinds that swirled about. This couldn't have happened without the help of the great people listed below!
Jared Bingham:
Jared and I have been friends for 5 years through thick and thin! We've been roommates 4 times, probably more. When I suddenly sold my apartment, he was there for me to let me share his little bedroom for a month while I figured things out. Our friendship is one of those that doesn't matter how frequently we run into each other, we always pick up right where we left off. I'm proud to see his steady progression through life (school, work, etc) and his example of goalsetting and creative fun. His family has wrapped their arms around me numerous times over the years and made me feel like one of them. Whether it be pulling a sled behind my car in the snow or just being a friend to go to church with, Jared is truly a friend for life.
Ben Rittmanic:
This guy is one of the most honest and sincere men I've ever met. We met a few years ago when we were neighbors at Belmont, but in March and throughout the rest of the year, we've built lasting friendship. He was there for me March 1st when I had an extra ticket to Secondhand Serenade of all things, and helped me move out of my apartment. From that point, tooltime at the gym and pool, deep talks, girl drama to and from Provo to Lake Powell and beyond. My favorite memory of Ben is when we were in Lake Powell in May. A girl from another camp hit her head wakeboarding and we participated in a blessing to calm her ailments. That worthy Ben is who I'll always remember. He has such an innate sense of goodness in him and I can't thank God enough for allowing me another chance at meeting this buff dude for his real strengths.
Kent Tuttle:
Aka, the Greek god. We've always joked around about him being perfect, but this year his understanding friendship, trust and example have truly lifted me up in hard times. We see eye to eye on so much, so a respected friendship between us is just natural. As great as he is, he always looks up to find people who will motivate him to do his best. There's a sense of humility in trying to emulate your heroes that he possesses. This gifted individual understands better than most that where much is given, much is required. I appreciate him reaching out and having the manly sensitivity to see things as they really are in life. He's quite the blogger too: KentTuttle.com.
Yvonne Shaver and Family:
Growing up, Yvonne was like a second mom to me. Her kids are considered siblings and they're all doing exactly what they should be at this stage in life. She has been there for me numerous times, and I love the way expects so much out of those she loves. In early March, she reached out to me with unlimited love and understanding. We've had lots of marathon talks over the years but the ones we've had this year have been extra precious to me. Her son Morgan (lifelong friend) gave me the greatest honor I can imagine by asking me to participate in the blessing of his son later on in the year. Eternal friendships prove unshakable through thick and thin.
Christian Parker:
This dude... Truly my brother from before this life, continues to be now as my roommate and will forever be a great comrade. My temple buddy throughout the year, we've grown closer as we've tried to push each other to greatness as the year has gone by. He's a trusted friend who trusts my abilities and makes me want to be my best. Grateful our lives recrossed paths again in March.
Taylor Church:
Friend at first sight 13 years ago, my guy through thick and thin. Tay could be on a my weekly MVP list. Its almost token that I throw him on here because he deserves to be on a more important list than this, but here is your real estate on my site man. Check out his blog at www.billymoney.com for some sweet reads. The kid reads more than anyone, is a human dictionary, and is always available to give you just the advice you need. You know when you're stressed, up all night working on a project and you just need someone to grab a burrito with you? How about when you're in the dumps about a girl and you need a good laugh? Or how about when you're itching for a trip across the USA and need a co-pilot? Taylor is a friend fit for every single occasion. Going on a decade and a half of terrestrial friendship, but many experiences in the eternities before that no doubt, Taylor knows me inside and out. He puts up with me and keeps on keeping on. Love Taylor. FEBRUARY:
“There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind.” - C.S. Lewis
"Should you find yourself on a chronically leaking boat, energy devoted to changing vessels is likely to be more productive than energy devoted to patching leaks." - Warren Buffett
One life is all we have and we live it as we believe in living it. To sacrifice what you are and to live without belief, that is a fate more terrible than dying!
It's impossible to push an unwilling someone up a latter. No matter how hard you try, it just doesn't work. If they won't ignore their comfort zone on the ground, or ignore their fear of heights and stretch their arms and take the steps, then they'll just stay right where they are, no matter how hard they're pushed, missing out on the better view. Its best to just leave them be with the chickens on the ground so you can enjoy your climb with the eagles. February was... eventful! Midway through the month, two dear friends filled me in on some important information that I suspected and changed my life. To those 2 men I'll always be grateful. I have reason to believe that their selflessness in telling truths I needed to hear got them in loads of trouble and that they're still paying the price for it. They obviously have to deny our conversation ever happened. Yet, I know their true desires and I'll always appreciate them looking out for me. Even though I don't have as much contact with a couple of of the People of February 2013 anymore, all of them will be on my street in heaven. Sometimes its necessary to pause friendships for a greater purpose in the future. A hard lesson to realize, but a good one to learn!
Jon Parrish:
Jon co-founded Citygro and involved me early on when he opened up the Utah County market a few years ago. When he contacted me about the challenge of building a national sales force I was super excited. We had a couple business trips, dinners and conversations that really strengthened me and made me better. He has the cutest young family and a work ethic that can't be compared to anyone I've ever met. He's a very young religious leader and will continue to affect the community and people he leads in a positive way.
Justin Prince:
Justin is a hero to me. Early in the year we had marathon phone calls, played basketball at 7AM on Saturdays and afterwards we would discuss business ideas. He had me critique videos and content he had on his website iamjustinprince.com. He is quite the network marketer, and business relationships creator. This year he launched Modere on a unique social retail multi-level (network marketing) platform of his own genius. His example of love for his children goes unsurpassed. It drives each decision in his life. I envy his stick-to-it-ive-ness. Our conversations while doing service and hour long pump-me-up phone calls with him will always be some of my fondest memories.
Jared Dowell:
A former neighbor, ward-member, and fellow south Utahn, I can probably empathize with him more than most that he treats. I appreciate this great man's example. He is my chiropractor (Accident and Chiropractic Treatment in Provo) and treated me for free numerous times out of the goodness of his heart. A loving father to a couple adorable kids and husband to the sweetest wife, they have a special bond that has endured some tidal waves of their own. His openness to sharing his own feelings about enduring those challenges is something that I'll cherish for a long time. His transparency to me in moments of tumult revealed the best of him. As a member of the same ward, we found ourselves seeking service opportunities and helping eachother selflessly at times. I'll always love Dr. Dowell.
Kellen Madsen:
In high school Kellen and I were tennis doubles partners, football and basketball teammates, and went through some political struggles side by side when our parents got partial blame for a coach getting fired. Really though, we and our families had nothing to do with it! However, that experience of being allegedly guilty taught me alot about being head strong. I'm grateful I had Kellen as a friend then. He saw right through my 2012 Walk on Water, waved every red flag he could, yet still humbly subjected himself to culpabilities he never deserved.Eric Kramer:
My Family:
Surprise surprise! My family hit the ball of the park in February! Their support in moments of transition and earth shattering findings was just what I needed.
JANUARY:
During January I found myself slaving away in San Antonio on a project my friend had asked me to help out on. The opportunity to leave Utah and go make enough money to pay for what I forsaw as an expensive year ahead (I had just signed on 2 cars in December, had the nicest apartments Utah Valley offers, and wanted to put money towards a house). Although the money was great, the true treasures were in the people and accompanying experiences I had in what is one of my favorite cities!
Jordan and Mandy Potter:
Mandy has always been one of my favorite people. We grew up in the same ward, her dad was my bishop, and I've always looked up to her for simply being a member of the Farmer and King families. To top it off, her husband, a guy I've loved since the day I met him bowling almost 6 years ago, is one of the best husbands / dads I could ever look to as an example.
When they found out I was working in South Texas for a month, they opened their doors wide open for me to stay. I enjoyed the peace I felt in their home daily, the awesome dinners I would come home to, and of course their 2 bundle of joy boys that were SO intrigued that I would drink "chalky milk", AKA protein shakes. Jordan allowed me to play on the ward basketball team as well, such a fun experience!
I learned from their example on how to build a happy home, based on gospel principles. They gave me a safe haven. I'll forever be grateful!
The San Antonio Assistants Elder Dan Thornley and Elder Jon McMurray:
While in San Antonio, my nights were pretty open and for those who know me well, I was in quite the "committed relationship" so going out on the town wasn't an option. I called the San Antonio Mission office and volunteered my nights to bearing testimony of the gospel I love so much! The Assistants put me right to work, and let me come along for the ride as much as possible. Gosh, I miss those San Antonio nights with those stellar men.
Laura Ketterman:
One woman they were teaching was Laura Ketterman. She was passing through her own ups and downs having lost her mother, and watching her eyes light up as she accepted the gospel and saw the hope of God's Plan of Salvation and committed to her life to Christ made me forget about my own problems and lightened every day. She is such a stellar example to me: loving, warm-hearted, hilarious, a great cook, and just so humble and happy, despite all the talent in the world. She works as a lawyer in Texas but we have kept in touch as she has family nearby, also fabulous people!
My Family:
I should also note that my family came up big in January! They spoiled the noogins out of the pretty face back home I was working to afford, and gave me daily motivations and support. I'll forever be grateful for January 2013.
Additional Quotes from the Year
Alma 27:16-18 - Friendship
16 And it came to pass that as Ammon was going forth into the land, that he and his brethren met Alma, over in the place of which has been spoken; and behold, this was a joyful meeting.
17 Now the joy of Ammon was so great even that he was full; yea, he was swallowed up in the joy of his God, even to the exhausting of his strength; and he fell again to the earth.
18 Now was not this exceeding joy? Behold, this is joy which none receiveth save it be the truly penitent and humble seeker of happiness.
Minor details can make a huge difference. A field of grass is just a field of grass, but organize it with lines and it becomes something magical!
No matter the trial, there is something each day to embrace, cherish, and bring gratitude and joy if only we will see it. - Deiter F Uchdorf
You get what you commit to, based on your level of commitment in it. Commit 100% and you'll get all of what that thing can potentially give back to you! The key is committing to something fruitful #roomiechat - Michael McConkie
I believe in Christ, so come what may
"Its not about what happens to you, its about what you do with what happens to you that matters!" My favorite motivational speaker, Dan Clark
It's impossible to push an unwilling someone up a latter. No matter how hard you try, it just doesn't work. If they won't ignore their comfort zone on the ground, or ignore their fear of heights and stretch their arms and take the steps, then they'll just stay right where they are, no matter how hard they're pushed, missing out on the better view. Its best to just leave them be with the chickens on the ground so you can enjoy your climb with the eagles.
“Just when all seems to be going right, challenges often come in multiple doses, applied simultaneously. When those trials are not consequences of your disobedience, they are evidence that the Lord feels you are prepared to grow more. He therefore gives you experiences that stimulate growth, understanding, and compassion which polish you for your everlasting benefit.” -Richard G. Scott
Trial: A God-Given opportunity to stretch, self examine, self correct, step into the dark in faith and succeed against all odds.
There's no better feeling than looking at the man in the glass eye to eye and confidently determining he has been refined by Him and is much better off than had he shrunk in the face of difficulty. Restraint builds strength. Satan will always lose this battle!!! For God and His faithful are well prepared for all tribulation because their faith is in the One who already descended, defeated, and rose above all vice and mediocrity, nourishing His with awesome optimism, unlimited virtue and excellent power!
Just as faith and doubt cannot coexist, neither can paradise and a lone heart #realtalk
It isn't "God or nothing." It is God First; then everything else follows.
"It eluded us then, but that's no matter--tomorrow we will run faster, stretch out our arms farther... So we beat on, boats against the current..." The Great Gatsby
"The flame shall not hurt thee, I only design, thy dross to consume, thy gold to refine...
The soul, though all hell should endeavor to shake, I'll never, no never, no never forsake!"
"Man is more himself, more manlike, when joy is the fundamental thing in him, and grief the superficial. Melancholy should be an innocent interlude, a tender and fugitive frame of mind; praise should be the permanent pulsation of the soul. Pessimism is at best an emotional half-holiday; joy is the uproarious labour by which all things live." - GK Chesterton
"Some blessings come soon, some come late, and some don't come until heaven; but for those who embrace the gospel of Jesus Christ, they come." Jeffrey R. Holland
No one lets it be except that circumstance where people out of the blue give criticism towards you and saying look at this guy, we thought he was perfect but look at him, he made a mistake."
God left the world unfinished for man to work his skill upon. He left the electricity in the cloud, the oil in the earth. He left the rivers unbridged and the forests unfelled and the cities unbuilt. God gives to man the challenge of raw materials, not the ease of finished things. He leaves the pictures unpainted and the music unsung and the problems unsolved, that man might know the joys and glories of creation.
If you can't handle the heat, don't tickle the dragon
“So comes snow after fire, and even dragons have their ending.”
“The man who fights too long against dragons becomes a dragon himself”
"To love another person is to see the face of God."
-V.H.
If i'm gonna be knocked off this pedestal I'm gonna make sure I do something and I do something, to be knocked off. I'm not gonna let someone else knock me off for no apparent reason or for comments I didn't say - Michael Jordan
Michael McConkie
Bryce Forbush
John Allred
Michael Easterling
A mountain of others who made 2013 the best year yet!
Alma 27:16-18 - Friendship
16 And it came to pass that as Ammon was going forth into the land, that he and his brethren met Alma, over in the place of which has been spoken; and behold, this was a joyful meeting.
17 Now the joy of Ammon was so great even that he was full; yea, he was swallowed up in the joy of his God, even to the exhausting of his strength; and he fell again to the earth.
18 Now was not this exceeding joy? Behold, this is joy which none receiveth save it be the truly penitent and humble seeker of happiness.
Minor details can make a huge difference. A field of grass is just a field of grass, but organize it with lines and it becomes something magical!
No matter the trial, there is something each day to embrace, cherish, and bring gratitude and joy if only we will see it. - Deiter F Uchdorf
You get what you commit to, based on your level of commitment in it. Commit 100% and you'll get all of what that thing can potentially give back to you! The key is committing to something fruitful #roomiechat - Michael McConkie
I believe in Christ, so come what may
"Its not about what happens to you, its about what you do with what happens to you that matters!" My favorite motivational speaker, Dan Clark
It's impossible to push an unwilling someone up a latter. No matter how hard you try, it just doesn't work. If they won't ignore their comfort zone on the ground, or ignore their fear of heights and stretch their arms and take the steps, then they'll just stay right where they are, no matter how hard they're pushed, missing out on the better view. Its best to just leave them be with the chickens on the ground so you can enjoy your climb with the eagles.
“Just when all seems to be going right, challenges often come in multiple doses, applied simultaneously. When those trials are not consequences of your disobedience, they are evidence that the Lord feels you are prepared to grow more. He therefore gives you experiences that stimulate growth, understanding, and compassion which polish you for your everlasting benefit.” -Richard G. Scott
Trial: A God-Given opportunity to stretch, self examine, self correct, step into the dark in faith and succeed against all odds.
There's no better feeling than looking at the man in the glass eye to eye and confidently determining he has been refined by Him and is much better off than had he shrunk in the face of difficulty. Restraint builds strength. Satan will always lose this battle!!! For God and His faithful are well prepared for all tribulation because their faith is in the One who already descended, defeated, and rose above all vice and mediocrity, nourishing His with awesome optimism, unlimited virtue and excellent power!
Just as faith and doubt cannot coexist, neither can paradise and a lone heart #realtalk
It isn't "God or nothing." It is God First; then everything else follows.
"It eluded us then, but that's no matter--tomorrow we will run faster, stretch out our arms farther... So we beat on, boats against the current..." The Great Gatsby
"The flame shall not hurt thee, I only design, thy dross to consume, thy gold to refine...
The soul, though all hell should endeavor to shake, I'll never, no never, no never forsake!"
"Man is more himself, more manlike, when joy is the fundamental thing in him, and grief the superficial. Melancholy should be an innocent interlude, a tender and fugitive frame of mind; praise should be the permanent pulsation of the soul. Pessimism is at best an emotional half-holiday; joy is the uproarious labour by which all things live." - GK Chesterton
"Some blessings come soon, some come late, and some don't come until heaven; but for those who embrace the gospel of Jesus Christ, they come." Jeffrey R. Holland
No one lets it be except that circumstance where people out of the blue give criticism towards you and saying look at this guy, we thought he was perfect but look at him, he made a mistake."
If you can't handle the heat, don't tickle the dragon
“So comes snow after fire, and even dragons have their ending.”
“The man who fights too long against dragons becomes a dragon himself”
"To love another person is to see the face of God."
-V.H.
If i'm gonna be knocked off this pedestal I'm gonna make sure I do something and I do something, to be knocked off. I'm not gonna let someone else knock me off for no apparent reason or for comments I didn't say - Michael Jordan
Michael McConkie
Bryce Forbush
John Allred
Michael Easterling
A mountain of others who made 2013 the best year yet!
